Best Ways to Prepare Kids for a PCS Move

Moving is challenging for everyone, but for kids, a PCS move can bring up anxiety, sadness, and uncertainty. Military children often have to say goodbye to friends, leave familiar surroundings, and adjust to new schools—all within a short time frame.

While PCS moves are a part of military life, there are ways to make the transition easier for your children.

How to Help Kids Through a PCS Move

1. Start the Conversation Early
Give kids as much notice as possible. Talk about the move, answer their questions, and be honest about both the exciting and challenging parts.

2. Get Them Involved
Involve kids in the moving process:

Let them help choose their new rooms (if possible)
Show them pictures of the new city or base
Talk about fun activities they can look forward to

3. Acknowledge Their Feelings
It is natural for children to feel sad, nervous, or even angry about moving. Acknowledge these emotions and provide reassurance that it is okay to feel both excited and upset.

4. Plan Goodbyes
Help kids say goodbye to friends, teachers, and neighbors. Hosting a small farewell party, making memory books, or exchanging addresses for future communication can provide closure.

5. Focus on New Adventures
Once the move is underway, emphasize the new opportunities waiting for them. Explore new activities, join youth programs on base, and visit local attractions together.

MRES agents understand the importance of finding a home and community that is right for your entire family—especially the youngest members.

📍 Get connected with a trusted MRES agent at www.mil-estatesupport.com to make your next PCS move as smooth as possible for your family.

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